I know they say we have to wing it, but today I’m fringing it

Hello, my lovely peeps. How are y’all doing? Geez! November is almost out of the way in a couple of days. 2016 has really been a blur, but I’m grateful all the same.

This month has been an eye opener for me, in the sense that having self-confidence is more important than the words that come out of your mouth. I recently found out that the way you speak can make people listen and believe in you regardless of the content you deliver. I should know that right?  oh well its never too late to learn, because life they say is a classroom and you learn every day.

Have you ever listen to a song and discover the lyrics make absolutely no sense but you still love the song? If your answer is YES now you get the point I’m trying to make.

Sometimes I can come across shy and tend to mumble my words.

Are you struggling with this too?

My goal for the remainder of 2016 is to boost my self- confidence in all aspect of my life. Speak with boldness and clarity to influence. I have been asking God for his grace and also putting an action plan to achieve this.

Action Plan:

Prep myself through self-talk because whatever I tell myself is what I will convey to others.

Well, that’s one action item I’m working on right now, I know the list will expand as time goes on.

So what are you struggling with and what’s your action plan?

My fashion corner:

Fringe Fringe Fringe!!!!! I needed to get into this fringe trend, so I finally got myself this happy fun skirt.

The skirt brings out my bubbly side. It’s just so flattering with all the bits flying in all directions.

I was thinking of getting it in black but when I came across this burgundy colour from H&M I know this was it for me. Styling this skirt was easy, my black bodysuit from H&M was the only choice in my mind to pair the skirt with, not quite sure why, but oh well it works.

Enjoy the rest of your week and talk soon. Keep fringing it and be happy.

Outfit details:

Bodysuit &  Fringe Skirt: H &M

Heels: Tony Bianco

Handbag : Michael kors

Choker: Missguided


  1. Absolutely love it…. It’s so important to speak life and good things to ourselves first before we can relay it to the world….. Even if it means writing positive notes on sticker you tend to run to in the course of your day, positive speak to one’s self is truly important…. You look insanely beautiful hun, I love the ensemble and the skirt is just insanely chic…. I love the lace bodysuit top, it tones the entire look down and add elegance to it…. Enjoy the rest of your week dear :*

  2. Love the message behind this post. Staying and thinking positive isn`t enough to fulfill a purpose drive life. Speaking positive to ourselves is important as well. I`m praying that you work on this milestone in your life my dear Soni!
    You are glowing as usual and i love how edgy you look. Always a pleasure coming to your page!

  3. You fringed it all the way hun and am loving every bit of this look! Look at how you rock the looks intact I should just move to Australia and share the weather if not your closet with you. That top and shoes are so dope and your hair is currently the best!
    Glad you are very positive about ending the year with self confidence and already have plans on how to go about it cause thats the first step towards living a POSITIVE LIFE hun. So proud of you!
    Happy first Advent and enjoy your new week

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